What sexy means to me

Sexy isn’t about fitting into someone else's definition of beauty or desire.

It’s not about perfection.

It’s not about performance.

It’s not something external—unless it’s rooted deeply within who you truly are.

For me, sexy is something raw, real, and alive.

It’s rooted in love, presence, and erotic innocence..

Sexy is treating your body like a temple.

It’s nourishing yourself with vibrant, whole foods.

It’s moving your body, feeling strong, alive, and powerful—not out of pressure, but out of reverence for the sacred vessel you live in.

It’s saying no to what doesn't serve your body, mind, or soul—not from a place of restriction, but from deep self-respect.

It’s taking care of you—because how you care for yourself is a reflection of how much you value yourself.

Sexy is living with an open heart.

It’s the warmth in your smile, the tenderness in your gestures.

It’s being thoughtful and considerate, not out of obligation, but because your heart is open—and wise enough to know when and where to open fully.

An open heart with discerning gates—that's the ultimate form of sexy to me.

Sexy is being connected to your body.

It’s feeling the earth under your feet, tasting your food as if savouring a kiss, letting your senses feast on every moment

It’s making love—not just with your body, but with your soul.

It’s letting pleasure ripple through you without shame, without apology.

Sexy is allowing your inner fire to shine.

It’s in the spark in your eyes, the sway of your hips, the way your energy infuses everything you do—your touch, your laughter, your work, your dreams.

It’s letting your erotic energy flow through your life like a current of creativity, innocence, and power.

Sexy is everywhere.

Sexy is a movement a cashier at Sainsbury's makes with her hands.

Or the way ballerinas float through their graceful dance.

Or how my guests’ bodies tremble when I touch them, feeling their breath quicken and their hearts beat faster.

It’s a look, a gesture, a moment of pure erotic connection — to yourself, and to another.

Love,

Rosie x